Two weeks ago I wrote that life after children had become about getting back in shape and keeping up with my adult children.  I was inspired and started running with my youngest daughter.  Last week I didn’t update my blog - I was lying in a hospital bed waiting to have surgery to repair my broken shoulder, the result of a fall while running.  This past week my life has been about being broken and trying to heal - physically and emotionally - and pondering that age old question:  does everything happen for a reason, or sometimes, does shit just happen?